Like speaking a foreign language, using chopsticks is a skill that you require your patience. To learn how to use chopsticks you will need chopsticks and patience.
Step 1: In your right hand, rest the thick end of chopstick on the webbing between your thumb and fourth finger. So that about an inch of stick is behind your hand and rest the other end on your ring finger. Stabilize this bottom chopstick, which doesn't move, so the top chopstick can move.